Thursday, May 03, 2007

Marrying the Wrong Person

and they lived happily ever after...

Eh pano kung si Prince Charming eh mascara lang pala ni Mr Monster, anong gagawin mo? At least sa states me divorce, eh pano ngayon, nasa Pinas ka, e di tiis na lang forever?

Kaya sa mga singles, kahit gaano nyo man kalove si Prince Charming nyo, basahin nyo ang mga sumusunod na guidelines para maiwasan ang mga Mr. Monster na nagpapanggap na Prince Charming.


TEN WAYS TO MARRY THE WRONG PERSON

By Dov Heller

With the divorce rate over 50%, too many are apparently making a serious
mistake in deciding whom to spend the rest of their life with. To avoid
becoming a "statistic," try to internalize 10 insights.

1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change
after you're married. The classic mistake! NEVER MARRY POTENTIAL!! The
Golden Rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she
is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it,
"You actually can expect people to change after their married...for the
worst!" So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character,
personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure
you can live with these as they are now. It's as good as it gets!

2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry
than their character. Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character
keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome. "I'm in love"
often means, "I'm in lust." Attraction is there, but have you carefully
checked out this person's character? Here are four characteristics to
definitely check for:
· Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the
right thing" is more important than personal comfort?
· Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to
other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to
be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give to charity?
· Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what
s/he says s/he's going to do?
· Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he
enjoy life? s/he emotionally stable? Ask yourself: Do I want to
be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this
person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?

3. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common
life, goal and priorities. There are three basic ways we connect with
another person:
(1) Chemistry and compatibility,
(2) Share common interests and
(3)Share a life goal.
Make sure you share a deeper level of connection that sharing life goals
provide.
After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart.
To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're living for while
you are single-and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion
as you. This is the true definition of a soul mate. A soul mate is a goal
mate... two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's
purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.

4. You pick the wrong person because you do not have deeper
emotional connection. To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional
connection or not, ask: "Do I respect and admire this person?" This
does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?" We are impressed by a
Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. Yes,
you should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty,
determination, etc., but do you actually respect and admire this person
who possesses these qualities? Also ask: "Do I trust this person?" This
also means, "Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I can rely on
him/her?

5. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom
you don't feel emotionally safe. Ask yourself the following questions:
Do I feel calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person? Can I fully be
myself, and express myself with this person? Does this person make me
feel good about myself? Do you have a really close friend who makes you
feel this way? Make sure the person you marry makes you feel the same
way! (That's why best friends usually fall under this category
perfectly! But that's another story...) Are you afraid of this person
in any way? You should not feel you need to monitor what you say
because you are afraid of how the other person will view it. If you're
afraid to express your feelings and opinions openly, there's a problem
with the relationship. Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't
feel the other person is trying to control you. Controlling behaviors
are a sign of an abusive person. Be on the lookout out for someone who
is always trying to change you. There is a big difference between
"controlling" and "making suggestions." A suggestion is made for your
benefit; a control statement is made for their benefit.

6. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the
table. Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought
up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way
to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work
together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably
arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment: Can you
resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of
you? Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is
also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person.
If you can't be vulnerable, you can't be intimate. The two go hand in
hand.

7. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to
escape from personal problems and unhappiness. If you are unhappy and
single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not
fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. If anything,
marriage will exacerbate them. If you are not happy with yourself and
your life, take responsibility to fix it now while you are single.
You'll feel better and your future spouse will thank you.

8. You choose the wrong person because you get involved sexually too
quickly. This can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully
honest exploration of important issues. Sexual involvement tends to
cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good
decisions. It is not necessary to "test drive" in order to find out if
a couple are sexually compatible. If you do your homework and make sure
you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to
worry about sexual compatibility. Of all the studies on divorce, sexual
incompatibility is never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

9. You pick the wrong person because the man doesn't understand what
a woman needs most. Men and women have unique emotional needs (Men are
from Mars...Women are from Venus!) and more often than not, it is the
man who just doesn't get it. The unique need of a woman is to be loved,
to feel that she is the most important person in her husband's life.
The husband needs to give her consistent, quality attention. Sexual
intimacy is always on the woman's terms. Men are goal oriented
especially when it comes to this area. As a wise woman once pointed
out, "Men have two speeds: on and off." Women are experience oriented.
When a man is able to switch gears and become more experience-oriented,
he will discover what makes his wife very happy. When the man forgets
about his own needs and focuses on giving his wife pleasure, amazing
things will happen.

10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a
triangle. To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent
on someone or something else while trying to develop a relationship.
But of course, being "triangulated" with God is the best triangulation
you could have with your partner! A person who hasn't separated from
his or her parents is a classic example of triangulation. People can
also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs,
Internet, hobbies, sports or money. Be careful that you and your
partner are free of triangles. The person caught in a triangle cannot
be fully emotionally available to you. You'll not be their number one
priority. And that's not basis for a marriage. Ability is what you're
capable of doing.

Monday, April 16, 2007

Chance to change..

What if you wake up from a dream and realized that you were only 10 years old??

Nabasa ko ang thread na ito sa PEX.. ano nga kaya kung mangyari sa ito. Sa dami ng pinagdaanan mo sa buhay mo, bigla ka na lang magigising.. ang lahat pala ng nangyari ay panaginip lang...

Meron ka bang nais baguhin sa buhay mo?

Kung sa akin mangyayari ito... Kung sabagay, pinakapaborito kong parte ng buhay ko ang elementary. Wala pa masyado problema, masipag ako mag aral at higit sa lahat mataas pa ang self-confidence ko noon..Kaya wala ako babaguhin sa panahong iyon.

Pagdating ng high school... hmm, dito ako nagsimulang mawalan ng kompyansa sa sarili... feeling ko bobita ako sa english. takot na takot ako pag tinatawag ako ng teacher ko. Siguro ang babaguhin ko, magbabasa ako ng magbabasa ng mga english pocketbooks ng nanay ko. Isa pang babaguhin ko eh hindi ako magboboyfriend!!!

College.. simula na ng epekto ng mga ginawa kong pagbabago... dahil hindi ako nagboyfriend nung high school, sigurado walang rason ang mama ko para di ako payagan mag aral sa UP. Oo UP! Ang matagal kong pinangrap na skul di ko napasukan dahil sa walang kwentang pag ibig heheh.

Aral? Makakapagtapos kaya ako? 2 bagay lang, its either na mag aral ako mabuti or madala ako ng katamaran sa pag aaral...sabihin nating naging masipag ako sa pag aaral..

Trabaho. Syempre dahil sa Manila ako nagtapos e di dito rin ako makakapagtrabaho. Anong klaseng trabaho kaya ang papasukan ko. Maganda kaya ang magiging starting salary ko? Makakabili kaya ako ng gusto ko? Makakapag ipon ba ako? Magkakaron ba ako ng maraming kaibigan? Makakapag abroad ba ako? Dito na rin kaya ako makakapag asawa???

Pooofff!!!


Hewww!!! Ang layo!!! Ang layo sa katotohanan. Maganda ang kinalabasan pero magkakaron at magkakaron pa rin ako ng regrets... Mamimit ko ba ang honey? Mamimit ko ba ang mga kaibigan ko? Magiging masaya ba ako? siguradong hindi...Siguro kung andon ako sa sitwasyon eh pwede ko rin sabihin na sana panainip lang ang lahat ng ito para me pagkakataon pang mabago...

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Sa lungkot at saya, sa hirap at ginhawa...

I really like this song, masyado kasi akong nakakarelate :)

MYMP - Nothing's G...



Lookin' in your eyes I see a paradise
This world that I've found is too good to be true
Standin' here beside ya, want so much to give you
This love in my heart that I'm feelin' for you

Let 'em say we're crazy, I don't care about that
Put your hand in my hand, baby, don't ever look back
Let the world around us just fall apart
Baby, we can make it if we're heart-to-heart

And we can build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothing's gonna stop us now
And if this world runs out of lovers
We'll still have each other
Nothing's gonna stop us, nothing's gonna stop us now, whoa no

I'm so glad I found you, I'm not gonna lose you
Whatever it takes, I will stay here with you
Take you to the good times, see you through the bad times
Whatever it takes is what I'm gonna do

Let 'em say we're crazy, what do they know?
Put your arms around me, baby, don't ever let go
Let the world around us just fall apart
Baby, we can make it if we're heart-to-heart

And we can build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothing's gonna stop us now
And if this world runs out of lovers
We'll still have each other
Nothing's gonna stop us, nothing's gonna stop us, ooh

All that I need is you
All that I ever need
All that I want to do
Is hold you forever, forever and ever

And we can build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothing's gonna stop us now
And if this world runs out of lovers
We'll still have each other
Nothing's gonna stop us, nothing's gonna stop us

Build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothing's gonna stop us now
And if this world runs out of lovers
We'll still have each other
Nothing's gonna stop us now

And we can build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothing's gonna stop us now
And if this world runs out of lovers
We'll still have each other
Nothing's gonna stop us, nothing's gonna stop us

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Usapang tsismis

Likas na sa tao ang pagiging tsismoso o tsismosa. Makakasagap ka nito sa mga inuman, sleep over, pantries, CR, o minsan sa workstation mismo. Minsan masasabi pa ngang "In" ka kapag updated ka sa mga latest chismis in town.

Dun sa dati kong pinatatrabahuhan, masasabi ko sa isa ako sa mga huling nakakasagap ng tsismis. Minsan alam na ng lahat, ako hindi pa. Kung di pa me maawa or me madulas magsabi, di ko pa nalalaman.. bakit kaya? Ito ba eh dahil ako ang madalas nilang pag usapan? Tumpak!!! Isa ako sa mga pulutan ng tao doon. Feeling ko nga star ako, ala Kris Aquino nyahahaha!!! Kaya pag alis ko don, para akong nabunutan ng tinik.. hay salamat.. nagkaron ng privacy ang buhay ko.

Paglipat ko dito, medyo nag improve ang radar ko. Di na ako nahuhuli sa balita (syempre, di na ako ang pinag uusapan eh!).. minsan nakakacomment ako, pero di naman madalas lalo na kung wala naman kinalaman sa trabaho ko.

Maraming klase ng pagiging tsismosa.. meron mga taong kapag me gustong iconfirm sa iyo.. sasabihin ay "Oi sister, me nabalitaan ako... totoo bang..." pero ang totoo, sila ang may gustong malaman, kunwari lang yun term na "Me Nabalitaan".. asahan mo bukas, nakabroadcast na ang sinabi mo.

Meron naman taong ang kapag kinakausap mo, tatandaan ang sasabihin mo. Kapag iba na ang kausap nila at natyempong ang topic ay gaya ng napag usapan nyo... Bigla nyang mababanggit na "sabi nga ni (pangalan mo).. ganito ganyan ganyan".. Sapol!!! Ayun at naquote ka na.

Anyway, me nabasa akong article tungkol sa mga klase ng tsismis.. heto po...

There are three kinds of friendly gossip.

First, the "please-don't-tell-anyone-the-secret-I'm-not-supposed-to-tell" gossip. "Please-don't-tell" gossip enables the blabbermouth to be the first to broadcast interesting good news or bad news. Women who reveal secrets feel a need to let everyone know they know something you don't know. As children, you learn the importance of being a confidante. Being immature, children often run around the playground saying, "I know something you don't know! I know something you don't know!" Adults play the same game in a more "sophisticated" manner. "Please-don't-tell" gossip is a means to an end. The person telling doesn't necessarily care if the listener knows the news; more importantly, she wants the listener to know that she knew first. Playing the "I know something you don't know" game breeds curiosity. Curiosity is the desired emotion the gossip expects. She has won the game.

The second kind of friendly gossip is the "It's For Her Own Good" gossip. "Own Good" gossip is camouflaged gossip. This type of gossip takes on the disguise of charity. For example, "I know that I shouldn't be saying this about Lisa, but it's true. She isn't a good mother. As a group, we should exemplify how good mothers act. Hopefully, she will catch on." The gossips then continue to talk about the terrible mother that Lisa is. They, on the other hand, are fabulous mother role models. "Own Good" gossip isn't really helpful to the victim. Instead, this gossip has a divine mission. The mission of "Own Good" gossip is only for an opportunity to say, "Can you believe her?" or "Did you see what she did?" Many women feel inferior. They look for ways to build themselves up. These women put other women down to build themselves up.

The third kind of gossip is the "I feel Hurt Gossip." "Feel Hurt" gossip gives the slanderer the opportunity to rationalize her gossip because of hurt feelings. Justifying your reason for gossip makes gossip okay. When someone hurts your feelings, you feel a need to let everyone know how rotten you feel. You want to place the blame on the person who hurt you. You want everyone to know how dreadful that person is. A victim of hurt feelings never seems to take responsibility for reacting. Instead, the "hurter" is responsible for the "hurtee's" feelings. "Feel Hurt" gossip is almost always directed toward a close friend. Unfortunately, the closer you are to someone, the more vulnerable you are. Feelings become tender between dear friends. This type of gossip is the most damaging. Close friendships break up over "Feel Hurt" gossip.


Nung time na hinahunting ko kung sino ang mga chismosa sa amin, sinubukan kong gawin ang #3....hinanap ko ang potential suspect sa dating opisina namin.. kunwari eh naglabas ako ng sama ng loob tungkol sa isang kaopismate.. Presto, pagkaraan ng 2 araw.. Kumalat na..Sa ngayon, alam ko na kung sino ang 2 Kilabot ng Chismis doon hehehe!


Kung meron kayong nalalaman na scoop at gusto nyong ipamahagi yon..Bago magkalat ng impormasyon, basahin muna ang mga sumusunod na guidelines...


1. Never spread un-substantiated rumors.

2. Try to ask the question "Will this information help or hurt the listener and the person being discussed? Will this lead to compassion and understanding?"

3. Is what I am about to say something that could really damage someone's reputation?

4. Is it possible for me to directly confront the person who is the subject of the gossip instead of telling other people?

5. What is my motivation for telling this? Is it spite? Is it to build myself up? Is there another way I can achieve the same thing without gossiping about somebody else?

6. Am I simply "venting"? Can I "vent" by using "I" statements instead? (Like "I am really angry with Ezmerelda. What she did makes me feel taken advantage of" instead of "She is a troublemaker. Last week she did something even worse to poor Helen")

7. Would I feel comfortable with what I am saying if the person I am gossiping about finds out?


Kapag lumalabas na makakasakit ka ng kapwa mo sa ilalabas mong impormasyon, mas nakakabuting itago mo na lang.. O kaya, sabihin mo mismo sa taong concern kesa ipagkalat sa ibang tao na wala naman kinalaman sa buhay nya...

Monday, March 19, 2007

Bicol Express

Me nabasa akong thread sa PEX about pinoys na nakatuntong lang ng ibang bansa, nakalimutan ng magtagalog. Mayroon kasi akong naalalang similar situation. Ang pagkakaiba nga lang, mga taga province naman na lumipat na sa Manila...

Last year, nagkaroon ako ng chance na makita ulit ang mga high school classmates ko. Natural lang na kakausapin ko sila in Bicol dialect, yun iba sumagot in Bicol, yun iba naman sumagot in Tagalog...eh syempre matagal na di nagkita, kuwento ako ng kwento.. in pure bicol.. maya maya, nagsabi sa akin yun isa kong classmate, Jheng, pwedeng tagalog na lang.. kasi di na ako sanay magbicol eh...

Medyo nagtaka ako, at the same time nadissapoint... Bakit ganon? Sapat na ba ang sampung taon na pagtira sa Manila para makalimutan ang dialect na kinagisnan? Di ba sila nagbibicol sa bahay? Nahihiya ba silang gamitin ang sariling dialect dahil may makakarinig na iba at baka isipin na probinsyano/probinsyana sila? Di ko lang magets..

Kung tutuusin, hindi ako Bicolana. Sa Manila ako pinanganak at pinaghalong Batangueno, Sambal at Ilokano ang dugo ko. Napunta lang ako ng Bicol dahil sumunod ang pamilya namin sa lola ko. Pinilit kong matuto ng bikol pagtuntong ko ng high school dahil ang rason ng mga kaklase ko, di daw nila ako kakausapin kapag di ako marunong magbikol. Natuto ako ng dialect ng Polangui, at pagdating ko ng College, natutunan ko naman ang dialect ng Legazpi. Although sa loob ng bahay, Tagalog pa rin kami magsalita, pinipilit kong magbikol kapag nasa labas na ako, sa school, sa kapitbahay, kahit na nung nagtrabaho ako.Sa ngayon, pinag aaralan ko ang dialect ng Daraga since na taga daraga ang hon ko.

Wala man sa dugo ko ang pagiging Bicolano pero nakalakihan ko na pagiging isang bicolano. Halos mabiyak ang dibdib ko nung mapanood ang trahedyang dinulot ng bagyong Reming sa Albay. Kapag naglalakad lakad ako sa Makati, natutuwa ako kapag may nakakasalubong ako mga bikolano, kinakausap ko sila at tinatanong kung taga saan sila sa salitang bicol...

Kung tutuusin, ako ang mas may karapatan na magsalita ng Tagalog dahil dito ako pinanganak, pero bakit parang baliktad ang nangyayari...

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Group yourselves into.....!!!!

The boat is sinking....
Group yourselves into 3!!!!!!!!



Nagkaroon ng reorg sa department namin kamakailan, actually noon pa Sept. 2006 inannounce yun, pero sa dami kasi ng maapektuhan, umabot ng 6 na buwan bago nalagay sa position ang mga kinauukulan...

Nun una, hesitant talaga kami sa reorg na mangyayari,bakit kanyo, eh ka rereorg pa lang kasi 2 years ago. Yan nga ang dahilan kung bakit nalipat ako dito sa menila eh...Pinagsama sama ang ibat ibang departamento, nilagay sa isang grupo ayon sa skills (skills nga ba?) Sobrang adjustment ang nangyari pero lumaon nasanay na rin sa setup... Siguro indi masyado nagwork out yun sistema kaya nagkaron ulit ng bagong reorg...

Actually di sya bago kasi parang binalik lang ang dating sistema, magkakasama ang IT, magkakasama ang implementation at magkakasama din ang analysis... Oo nga ano, yun dati lang... kaso sa loob ng isang grupo ay may minigroups pang tinatawag, kaya kung dati sa grupo namin ay anim kami, nagkawatak watak kami at napunta sa ibang grupo. Bawat grupo ay may 3 members at every 6 months daw ay magrereshuffle ng grupo. Kaya kung pamilyar ka sa larong, "The boat is sinking..", parang ganon ang nangyari sa amin...

Maging maganda kaya ang resulta ng reorg na ito, sana naman oo.. dahil baka after 2 years e me bago na namang reorg na mangyayari..(kung abutin ko pa eto heheh) kawawa naman ang mga tao, hilong hilo na sa mga nangyayari...

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

Millenium RA Gapuz Review

MILLENIUM RA GAPUZ DARAGA BRANCH LOCAL NURSING REVIEW SCHEDULE:

April 16 - June 2, 2007
Monday to Friday, 9 am - 5 pm

Address: 3rd Floor JRE Building, Rizal St., Ilawod, Daraga, Albay (in front of Daraga Park)

For more information, call:

Mobile: (0906)309-9094
(0918)365-9538

Landline: (052)483-5633


Enrollment is now going on.

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Little Drummer Guh

Last saturday, pumunta kami ng brother ko sa Mall of Asia. Syempre di na nawala ang dropby sa Timezone. Nagtry sya magplay nung drumset don, tapos pinatry din nya ako. Nung una, walang kwenta yun paglalaro ko kasi wala talaga sa rhythm failed dun sa game hehehe. Katwiran ko eh di ko naririnig yun song kasi katabi lang nung machine yun para naman sa guitar. Kaya lumipat kami nung brother ko dun sa isa pang machine. Wala yun katabing ibang machine kaya wala na ako rason hehehe... Habang tumatagal nagugustuhan ko na yun paglalaro. Naubos yun 100 na niload sa card kaya humirit pa ako ng another 100. Abah, masaya pala, lalo kapag nakukuha mo na yun beat ng song heheh. Kaso, huminto na ako kasi yun babae sa likod ko nakadikit na sa akin kahihintay, kaya huminto na kami, sabi ko sa kapatid ko sa susunod na araw na lang...

Nung Tuesday, pumunta naman kami sa Timezone - Glorietta 4. Nagbasakali na makakapaglaro kamo doon. Kaso, abah eh tambayan pala yun ng mga magagaling. Di lang isang grupo yun, madami pa. As if pag aari nila yun machine kasi nagtry ng isang beses yun kapatid ko, abah di pa nga tapos, niswipe na nung isang guy yun card na. Ibig sabihin, pagkatapos ng song, kelangan na umalis ng brother ko. abah nung sila na, wala na... kanila na yung machine.. Naawa ako sa kapatid ko kasi naghintay sya ng 1 hour indi pa rin natapos, yun grupo na yun nagpapalitan... hay... di bale babalik na lang kami sa Mall of Asia hehhehe...at least doon walang umaangkin nung machine...

Nakakaadik din pala mag aral ng drums, sana matuto talaga ako...

Sa ngayon, heto na lang muna pinaglalaruan ko...

Online Drum Set Play the drums with your keyboard or mouse.

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Wooooorrrrmmmmsssss!!!!!!!!!!!

Try ko sana magcheck ng yahoomail ko ngayon, kaso bad trip, pag login ko, si symantec me nadetect na naman na worm. Una failed to quarantine pero nadelete naman yun file. Pangalawang attempt ko, failed na, naku patay na naman.. Pagcheck ko sa threat history, w32.feebs pala yun worm. Heto konting details:


Discovered: January 7, 2006
Updated: February 13, 2007 12:50:53 PM
Type: Worm
Systems Affected: Windows 2000, Windows 95, Windows 98, Windows Me, Windows NT, Windows Server 2003, Windows XP


W32.Feebs is a detection for a family of mass-mailing worm that also spreads through file-sharing networks and lowers security settings on the compromised computer.
The worm may also send confidential information to a remote attacker via FTP.

The worm arrives as an email attachment with an .HTA extension.



OT: katapusan na ng pebrero ngayon... hay naku marso na... start na ng summer...

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Affair KRISis

Hindi ako fan ni Kris Aquino pero 1st time kong nakisimpatya sa kanya nung narinig ko ang balitang nagkakamalabuan na silang dalawa ni James Yap. Di ko napanood yun interview sa kanya sa The Buzz kaya sa Journal online ko na lang ito nabasa:

ILANG araw na naming naririnig ang tungkol sa diumano’y tampuhan nina Kris Aquino at ng asawa nitong si James Yap.

Ayon sa bulung-bulungan, isang babae ang dahilan ng gusot sa kanilang relasyon. Ang girl daw na ito ay nagtatrabaho kay Vicki Belo. Ito raw ‘yung girl na madalas mag-service noon kay James tuwing mag-papa-facial siya sa clinic ni Belo.

Kung hindi kami nagkakamali, Hope ang sinasabing pangalan ng girl. May balita ring si Belo ang nagreto kay Hope kay James kaya nagtatampo rin kay Vicki si Kris. Pero, ayon naman sa iba, matagal na ang isyung ito. Hindi pa raw mag-on sina James at Kris noon nang magkaroon ng ‘affair’ si Mr. Yap kay Hope.

Oh, well.

Pero, how true na matagal na ang isyung ito? Ang naging problema lang daw talaga, eh, hindi naging open si James about this kay Kris kaya nang may mga naglabasang balita, hindi alam ni Kris kung ano ang magiging reaksyon niya.

Kunsabagay,who would know na mauungkat pa ang tungkol dito, ‘di ba? Kasal na si James at kung ano man ang nangyari sa nakaraan niya, siguradong kinalimutan niya na rin.

Sa kasalukuyan, wala pang nagiging pahayag si Kris about this issue. Ang alam lang namin, hate na hate niyang nakikita sa TV ang commercial ng Hope cigarette.


Para sa akin, napacomplicated ng lovelife ni Kris, mula sa kanyang mga BFs, ni Ipe, hanggang sa kontrobersiya nya with Joey Marquez. Syempre gusto naman din nyang magkaroon ng peaceful at magandang lovelife. Kaya nung nameet nya si James Yap, though malaki ang agwat ng edad nila, pinili nya na magpakasal dito.

Subalit, masyado ring maaga ang naging desisyon nilang magpakasal, 6 mos after na naging sila? Bakit kaya? Sya ba ay naghahabol? or ayaw nyang mawala sa kanya ang pamosong basketbolista?

Anyway.. ngayong lumabas na ang balita tungkol sa hidwaan ng mag asawa, masyado akong naging affected dahil sa mga sumusunod na dahilan:

Una, ayon sa balita, mas naunang naging nakarelasyon ni James si Hope. Samakatuwid, kahit na nagpakasal na si Kris at James ay patuloy pa rin nagkikita ang dalawa. Naalala ko tuloy si Monique sa Princess Hours na kahit mag asawa na si Gian at Janelle, di pa rin sinusuko ni Monique ang pag ibig nila ni Gian.

Pangalawa, lumalabas na sugar mommy si Kris. Obviously, mas malaki ang kinikita ni Kris, at dahil mahal ni Kris ang lalaki, lahat ng gustuhin nito ay maibibigay ni Kris.

Pangatlo, mas bata si James kesa kay Kris. Natural paminsan minsan, maging isip bata si James... Hello, 23 pa lang kaya yun. Sabi nga eh si James daw ay A boy trapped in a man's body. at syampre since na mas matured si Kris, mas kelangan syang maging mapag pasensya at intindihin na lang ang sitwasyon ng asawa. At sa nangyayaring yon, mas pipiliin nyang palagpasin na lang ang nangyari kesa maghiwalay pa sila.

Kung ako ang nasa katayuan ni Kris? Siguro ganon din ang gagawin ko.

Kaya nga ayoko rin nakikita yun commercial na skyflakes at Kumukulo ang dugo ko kay Vanessa del Bianco!!!

Monday, February 19, 2007

Taga Lipa Are!

Byernes ng hapon – katatapos ko pa lang gumawa ng pricing sa isa kong project ng naisipan kong mag internet. Nagulat ako nung nakita ko yun title ng internet explorer ko. "Google - Taga Lipa Are!"... abah abah abah? Bago na naman style? Gawa kaya ni Jessie to para sa Ntrak namin? So sinubukan kong idefault ang site ng IE ko sa blank page at nagrefresh.. ngek andon pa din... abah.. sino kaya gumawa nito, galing naman, alam nya kung taga Saan ako? Pero imposible kasi mas nakatira naman ako sa bicol kaya dapat Taga Bicol Ini ang nakalagay hehehe...

Gaya ng nakaugalian, punta na naman ako sa google para isearch ang text na Taga Lipa Are!... at me lumabas naman na result... Don ko natuklasan na virus pala ito... Anak ng... pano na to... bat hindi nadetect ng ativirus? Patay, mapapagalitan ako ng Systems nito!!!! Saang site ko ba ito nakuha? Tinanong ko yun mga ibang kaopisina ko kung meron din sila... naku wala.. patay talaga ako nito...

Buti na lang, yun gumawa ng virus ay nagmagandang loob na sabihin kung paano matatangal ang virus na pinakalat nya.. Share ko na din sa inyo:

"Hello im Dragantra creator of TAGA LIPA ARE! virus...Its a virus but it
gives no harm to your computer. anyway...to delete the virus you need to disable
the "Hide Protected Operating System Files" in your Windows Explorer folder
options (TOOLS > FOLDER OPTIONS > VIEW). Search the file name
FS6519.dll.vbs (THE VIRUS) in your hard drive or just to make sure in your My
Computer then delete the file. Note: On searching make sure you activated
"Search Hidden Files and Folders" on more advance options. If one of
"FS6519.dll.vbs" failed to delete run the Task Manager by holding
CTRL+ALT+DELETE then on the process area find "WSCRIPT" then end this process,
you can now delete the file "FS6519.dll.vbs" and "Autorun.inf" contaning text
(shellexecute=wscript.exe FS6519.dll.vbs). Then to get rid of the word "TAGA
LIPA ARE!" on your internet Explorer go to your windows registry (START > RUN
- then type regedit)Search the word "TAGA LIPA ARE!" and "FS6519" in the
following registry location

"HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\MICROSOT\WINDOWS\
CURRENTVERSION\RUN\FS6519.dll.vbs"

"HKEY_CURRENT_USER\SOFTWARE\MICROSOFT\
INTERNET EXPLORER\MAIN\WindowTitle"

right click and delete, never try to rename the window title just delete
it.. Your done.!


Actually, me dalawang bagay syang ginawa sa PC mo, una ang default open sa autorun.inf ng root C other drives mo ay lalagyan nya ng Script na FS6519.dll.vbs (di ko alam kung para saan ito) pero ang purpose nito ay para pagclick mo ng root drive mo, pupunta sa autoplay mode at instant iloload nya ang script na FS6519. Sinubukang kong gawin ang mga steps sa taas pero nagtaka ako dahil kapag nagclick ako sa root drive ay hinahanap nya ang script. at kapag nagright click ka, mapapansin mo na Autoplay ang unang command sa list mo. Para mawala yon. nisearch ko ang autorun.inf ng root drives ko. Delete at restart ng PC. Presto! Nawala ang sakit ng ulo ko...

Pangalawa lang po ang pagkakaroon ng title na "Taga Lipa are!"...

In case po na ma encounter nyo ang virus na ito, sana ay may maitulong ang sinulat ko :)

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Grrrr

Bad trip talaga itong araw na to. bad trip!!!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Balentayn Nightmare

Sa tuwing sasapit ang valentine's day, imbis na ako eh matuwa... masyado akong nagiging emosyonal.. E bakit kanyo....makakakita ka ng nagdedate, ng pinapadalhan ng flowers, with matching balloons balloons at teddy pa, at higit sa lahat sarit saring mga pakulo at surprises ang binibigay ng mg bf ng mga kakilala ko sa kanila. Aminin ko man at sa hindi, naiinggit ako. Ewan ko ba, di man lang kasi ako nakaranas ng mga ganyang bagay.. ako pa na mahilig sa surprises.. Nangsusurprise ako pero ni minsan ni pa ako nagawan ng ganyan.. Hay...

Kaya bukas, heto na naman ang gagawin ko... idedate ang sarili ko!

Thursday, February 01, 2007

Name Game

Mula nung pinanganak ako, sangkaterbang pangalan na ang binigay sa akin. Pinangalanan ako ng tatay ko ng Sarah Jane, yun ang tunay kong pangalan. Bad trip nga eh, sa dami ng pangalan sa mundo, bat yun pa ang binigay, napakacommon, palagi ako natatawag na Sarah Jane Salazar, yun AIDS victim. Sabi ng nanay ko, dapat daw Jinky ang ipapangalan nila sa akin, pero di ko na alam yung rason kung bagit napalitan ng Sarah Jane heheheh.

Sa pamilya (nanay, tatay, lola, lolo, tito, tita - at lahat ng kamag anak) ang tawag nila sa akin Jeng Jeng, minsan Jeng, na ginawa ko namang Jheng, heheheh, ewan ko siguro dahil napakahaba at napakapormal ng Sarah Jane kaya pinaikli na lang nila. Pati classmates ko ng elementary yun din ang tawag. Pati close friends ko ng high school ganon din.

Pagdating ng high school, ang Jheng at Sarah Jane, eh napalitan ng Sarah, kumag naman kasi ako, pagnagpapakilala ako d ko sinasabing "You can call me Jheng" waaaahhh engot!!! Meron din ako classmate na ang kapatid nya kapangalan ko, ang tawag naman nila don Ajane, dahil sa tinutukso ako dun sa classmate kong yon at Ado ang pangalan nya, nagkaroon naman ako ng bagong pangalan - Ajane, kalahati ng high school classmates ko heto ang tawag sa akin, ganda nga naman ng kombinasyon.. Ado at Ajane, naks corny!

Pagdating ng college, kahit gustuhin kong Jheng ang itawag nila sa akin di ko na nagawa kasi yun classmate ko ng high school na nakasama ko sa college, eh Sarah ang tawag sa akin.. hayun, no choice. Heto ang naging pangalan ko hanggang sa Grumaduate ako.

Pagdating ng unang work, heto na lagayan na ng name plate.. sa wakas, magagamit ko na ang Jheng ko, sa kasamaang palad, kahit naglagay ako ng name plate na Jheng, andon ang mga College classmate ko na tumatawag sa akin ng Sarah... waaahhhh!!! Sarah na talaga pangalan ko...

Habang tumatagal ako sa trabaho, nagevolved pa ang pangalang Sarah, naging Mama Sarah at Princess Sarah hango sa Sarah ang munting princesa, meron din tumawag na Sars, kaso pinahinto ko ang Sars kasi nagkaroon ng sakit na SARS, yucks...

Nung naging adik ako sa chat at pagsusulat, syempre likas na sa atin ang di magbigay ng tunay na pangalan di ba..kung sina Rizal may pseudonym, gusto ko, meron din ako! Dito lumabas ang pangalang Shannah Madrigal (naks pang boldstar ang dating!!) or mas kilala sa pangalang Shane (mas angkop sa tunay kong pangalan kasi hinango rin sa Sarah Jane di ba), sa kasamaang palad, me nakadiskubreng kaopisina ko. Mula non, tinawag na nila akong Shane, na naging mommy shane...

Nung nameet ko ang aking butihing honey, Shane ang pagkakakilala nya sa akin (dahil na din sa yun ang tawag nila sa akin sa opisina. Nung naging kami, sinabihan ko sya na Jheng ang itawag nya sa akin pati na rin ng pamilya nya (syempre dahil close ko sya kelangan yun orig kong nickname ang itawag di ba)... Siguro sa sobrang kalituhan na ng tao sa talagang itatawag sa akin, Shane pa rin ang pakilala nya sa pamilya nya... waaahh alangan naman sabihan ko pa si mama na na di po shane ang pangalan ko, jheng po... nacorrect pa rin naman sa bunso nyang kapatid dahil Ate Jheng na ang tawag nya sa akin.

Hay naku, wish ko lang na sana Jheng na ang itawag nila sa akin ...

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