Why do men always cheat?

I got this from Ask Dan and Jennifer


Ladies, you know in your heart if your man is cheating on you. You can feel it…

Maybe you’ve suspected for a while that things aren’t quite right in your relationship and you’re worried that maybe he’s stepping out on you, but you just can’t put your finger on exactly what’s bugging you.

Well, here are some concrete signs to watch out for if you think he may be unfaithful…

Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man

From http://www.WomanSavers.com

A cheating man can only hide his cheating ways for so long before he gets caught. The longer a man cheats, the higher probability he will get caught. In this busy day and age, it is difficult to carry on more than one relationship. However, with inventions like the internet, accessibility to willing partners has become easier than ever. There are various ways of how to tell if your man is cheating. We have listed the top 10 signs of a cheating man below. How to know if your man is cheating? If your man exhibits any of the below, it may be time to take a closer look.

1. Spends less time with you.

A cheating man must use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so he will have time with his “other” woman.

2. Isn’t as affectionate any more.

Your sex life in almost non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn’t want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he used to.


3. He changes his physical appearance.

A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you.

4. Car changes.

The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that’s what she likes.

5. Change in temperament.

A cheating man becomes more short-tempered because of the guilty feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not bother them suddenly start bothering them

6. A new fragrance.

A cheating man may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol, especially if he hasn’t had time to change them from meeting with her.

7. Behavioral changes.

A cheating man frequently becomes defensive when questioned about his whereabouts. He may turn it around to accuse you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy.

8. Cell phone changes.

A cheating man can not leave his telephone turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.

9. Computer usage changes.

A cheating man may utilize a computer to seek out partners or communicate with. If your man is on his computer for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won’t see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest.

10. Changes in spending habits.

You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bills or stubs that you may have access to.

Once you know if your man is cheating or not, make sure you have a plan of action that you will take after you accuse him. You need to decide whether it’s time for you to move on or whether this relationship may be worth a second chance.


Another one...

Cheating can also be from incredibly low self esteem, little self worth, an emotional problem, untreated adult ADHD/ADD, substance abuse problems, maybe dad cheated too, maybe mom cheated, maybe the cheater is simply a person wihtout much of a conscience or a really great liar who will forever lie about important things to anyone's face.

There are decent men out there (and women) who understand what integrity, dignity, and self respect are. Sure, they do not come a dime a dozen, but that's why people should be very choosey, not rush into anything, not ignore warning signs or little red flags going up in their head through the dating process, etc.

The first time you even SUSPECT you have a liar or that you found out you have a liar, you can give the benefit of the doubt. The second lie, ok, maybe I missed something, but picking up on the third bold face lie? Time to go no matter how much you love that person. NO matter how great the sexual chemistry is. No matter how much they make in income, no matter how far along the pregnancy, etc.. Once you know what is going on, DO NOT IGNORE IT. It is time to grow up, face reality, and get the hell away from screwed up filth that know how to cry and talk their way out of a paper bag.


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PGMA and Holidays

Last week, hinanda ko na ang sarili ko na hindi matutuloy ang pag uwi ko sa Legazpi dahil working day ang Feb 25. Kaninang umaga, sinigurado ko pang may pasok nga kaya tiningnan ko ang net:

Feb. 25 a working holiday--Palace


INQUIRER.net
First Posted 14:57:00 02/13/2008


MANILA, Philippines -- Malacañang has declared February 25, the 22nd anniversary of the 1986 People Power uprising that restored democracy in the country, as a working holiday.

"February 25 is a working holiday," Executive Secretary Eduardo Ermita told his weekly news conference at the Palace on Wednesday.

Makalipas ang apat na oras, binalitaan ako ng kaopisina ko na non-working holiday na ang Feb 25. Totoo ba ito? Eh kanina lang working holiday tapos ngayon biglang nagbago?

Feb. 25 a special non-working holiday--Palace



INQUIRER.netFirst Posted 15:45:00 02/18/2008


MANILA, Philippines -- February 25, the anniversary of the first people power revolution, is a special non-working holiday, Malacañang has announced.

Hmmm, bat kaya? Una pa lang hindi ko maintindihan kung bakit ginawang working holiday ang Feb 25 samantalang ilang taon na ang nakakalipas na palagi syang special non-working holiday.. ito ba ay sa dahilang hindi na close si Tita Cory at PGMA?

Tapos bigla bigla, magbabago at magiging non-working holiday? Hindi kaya ito may kinalaman sa nakaraang series of rallies para kay Jun Lozada? Hindi kaya ito paraan ng pagsuyo sa mga tao para hindi magandap ang isa pang EDSA Revolution?

HMMMMMMMM!!!!


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Happy happy Valentine

Better than late than never...


I thought this year would be another "Valentine Nightmare" for me... not until Annie texted that she has something for me from Jess.

Though its already Feb 15, I'm still happy that I got a gift from hon.

Happy Valentine's Day Honey. I love you!

Smalltime Biz

Im now selling:
- prepaid cards and eloads for ANY networks
- review cards
- game cards
- internet cards
- phone cards

O di ba, heheheheh!!!!